Perspectives Press

Articles and fact sheets

Talking to Children about Sex and Adoption

from Flight of the Stork by Anne Bernstein

Making Sense of New Conceptions…in a Family Way

from Flight of the Stork by Anne Bernstein

Observing Adoption Awareness Month

A compiled list of quick, easy, cheap, last-minute ideas for observing AAM this November as well as a list of ideas for observations that will take a half year or more of pre-planning for next year!

The Financial Impact of Adoptive Parenthood

by Pat Johnston, adapted from Launching a Baby’s Adoption and Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families

Infertility and Aftershocks

by Pat Johnston, explores the long-term psychological impact of infertility and discusses why resolving this issue is so important to future parenting relationships. Adapted from Taking Charge of Infertility, this article first appeared in the magazine Pact Press from Pact: An Adoption Alliance.

Beware the Dragon!

Chapter 1 from Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families by Patricia Irwin Johnston

Bringing Your International Adoptee Home

The following article has been excerpted from Chapter 6, Brothers and Sisters in Adoption: Helping Children Navigate Relationships when New Kids Join the Family. It is so exciting to finally find a child to join your family by adoption! You and the children you already parent-the typically-developing children-can hardly wait to meet the new brother [...]

Choosing Embryo Adoption

by Susan Cooper and Ellen Glazer from their book Choosing Assisted Reproduction: Social, Emotional and Ethical Considerations.

Children First:
Making the Paradigm Shift from Infertility to Adoption

by Pat Johnston This article first appeared in the enewsletter and on the website of INCIID.org, for which Pat moderates three adoption boards.Similar material now appears in her newest bookAdopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families (2007)

The Commitment

by Pat Johnston (first appeared in Adoption Today’s January 2001 issue)

Medical Ethics and the New Reproductive Technologies

by Susan Cooper and Ellen Glazer from Choosing Assisted Reproduction: Social, Emotional and Ethical Considerations

Making Good Decisions about Using Donated Eggs:
Elements and Influences

Excerpted from Ellen Sarasohn Glazer and Evelina Weidman Sterling’s Having Your Baby Through Egg Donation

In the Best Interests of the Embryos?

by Ellen Glazer is a provocative essay advocating against “embryo adoption” and for donation of “extra” embryos to stem cell research. It first appeared in the American Infertility Association’s newsletter.

Getting Real

(Building a sense of entitlement…are you the “real parent”?) by Pat Johnston, first appeared in Roots & Wings magazine after being adapted from Adopting after Infertility. It is now included in Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families

Five Hot Buttons Not to Push

by Pat Johnston (with help from her friends on the INCIID adoption boards), from Adoption Is a Family Affair! What Friends and Relatives Must Know

Il bambino “bloccato”

Di Vera I. Fahlberg, M.D. Traduzione di Marcia E. Salusti Questo articolo è stato adattato dal materiale sviluppato dalla Dott.ssa Fahlberg sull’assistenza ai bambini con assenza di attaccamento e bambini “confusi” da multipli collocamenti, presentato anche nei suoi libri. I lettori possono trovare questo articolo ed altri in Internet all’indirizzo  http://www.perspectivespress.com/ourfactsheets.html INTRODUZIONE Una delle principali [...]

Observing Infertility Awareness Month

Activities for you or your group to try by Pat Johnston with the American Fertility Association.

From Infertility to Family:
A Musical Journey

Popular songs providing comfort and empathy through the infertility journey.

The Life Story Book

by Vera Fahlberg, MD, was adapted from A Child’s Journey through Placement

Losing an Adoption: Practical Advice for Moving on after a Uniquely Painful Experience

by Pat Johnston and Wendy Williams from a book in process

The Guy on the Street and New Tech Babies
Advice from the Trenches for Parents

by Pat Johnston

Instant Family? A Case Against Artificial Twinning

is a new and expanded treatment of material already published in Pat Johnston’s books Launching a Baby’s Adoption and Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families, as well as in articles for Adoptive Families magazine, Pact Press, and Serono Symposia USA’s newsletter for professionals, Insights into Infertility. This is controversial stuff, but something all prospective adopters and couples reluctant to put treatment behind before adopting should read.

Assessing Attachment-Readiness and Capabilities in Prospective Adoptive Parents

Excerpted from Chapter 9: “The Role of The Child Welfare/Social Worker” in Deborah Gray’s 2007 book Nurturing Adoptions: Creating Resilience after Neglect and Trauma

‘Adopt-a’ Confusion

from Adopting After Infertility and Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families by Pat Johnston

What Should We Tell the Kids?

from Taking Charge of Infertility by Pat Johnston

Speaking Positively: Using Respectful Adoption Language

by Pat Johnston

Promoting Attachment through the Senses

by Pat Johnston, adapted from Launching a Baby’s Adoption and now <Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families

Servizi post-adozione

Vera I. Fahlberg, M.D. Traduzione di Marcia E. Salusti Questo articolo, sviluppato per i workshop formativi condotti dalla Dott.ssa Fahlberg, rivolti aspecialisti nel campo dell’assistenza ai minori, si collega ai materiali presentati nel suo libro intitolato A Child’s Journey through Placement. I lettori possono trovare quest’articolo ed altri in Internet all’indirizzo  http://www.perspectivespress.com/articlelist Gli assistenti sociali [...]

Losing a Sibling: Helping Your Child Cope with an Adoption Reversal

by Pat Johnston and Wendy Williams

A Guide for Group Discussion of Toddler Adoption: The Weaver’s Craft

Mary Hopkins-Best, Ed.D. Chapter 1-2: Had you thought about the similarities and differences between adoption of an infant, toddler, and older child? What surprised you about the section “What’s So Special About Toddler Adoption?” How deliberate is your choice to adopt a toddler? How might that affect your adjustment to your child and your child’s [...]

When Adopted Toddlers Reject Their Parents

by Mary Hopkins-Best from Toddler Adoption: The Weaver’s Craft first appeared in the PNPIC Post in Autumn, 1997.

Relaxing the Grip of Anxiety and Control

Excerpted from Deborah Gray’s Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today’s Parents.

Talking with Children about their Orphanage Background:
A Guide to Using Borya and the Burps!

A “user’s guide” to Joan McNamara’s children’s book Borya and the Burps!

Post-Adoption Services

by Vera I Fahlberg, M.D. is a part of the training material included in her books A Child’s Journey through Placement and Residential Treatment.

The Child Who Is ‘Stuck’

by Vera I. Fahlberg, M.D., is an adaptation from her books A Child’s Journey through Placement and Residential Treatment and trainings.